Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] What's going on, y'? All? Day two of blogging. Constantly. Every day for five days. We'll start for five days and then maybe stretch to 10, maybe 11. We'll see how far it goes. We're trying to do one every day, and I've already messed up because I skipped yesterday. The day before yesterday. I recorded one yesterday. I missed one.
[00:00:19] Today. October 15, 2025, is my second one, and we'll see if I can do one every other day.
[00:00:26] That's the thing about goals, you know what I mean? You set goals, sometimes they change, Sometimes you miss a goal, and that's fine. That's just a part of life. And I want to say that I learned that through playing sports.
[00:00:40] That's how my father kind of had us raised. We played football and baseball, and I was. I wasn't. I was in swimming one time. Tennis, man, all kinds of stuff that they put us in. Now, looking back, I kind of figured, like, they wanted us to do stuff, you know what I mean? And not just my parents. I'm talking about, like, my dad, my stepmom. They wanted us to do stuff or constantly have stuff to do, maybe because both of them were working, you know, I don't know why. I've never really asked them, but they were. I would say they were beneficial for me because I learned about goals, you know, setting goals.
[00:01:17] And sometimes you don't. Like, for instance, in basketball, you make a goal, sometimes you miss, you shoot and miss.
[00:01:25] Know, that's just something that I learned is a part of life, is that sometimes when I set goals, I miss the goal, and it. It doesn't do any. Do me any good to, like, beat myself up. Like, dang, I missed it.
[00:01:41] Now the whole game is over. I give up. You know what I mean? No. Like, in basketball, you missed it. Run back to the other side of the court, play defense, you know, try to get that. Keep them from making the score, you know what I mean? And then eventually get the ball back and try to make. Make the score, go on, on the rebound. You know what I mean?
[00:02:00] That's just an example. Like, basically, you don't give up when you're. When you have stuff to strive for that you're working for.
[00:02:07] And it's like, I have a lot of responsibility. I've got my marriage, my kids to look after.
[00:02:15] I've got co workers, I've got colleagues, I've got customers.
[00:02:21] I have an audience with my podcast, Corpse Christy Originals Podcast. Go check it out.
[00:02:29] Yeah, it's just. I can't Stop now. Like, I can't stop because I've, I've. I've got life to deal with, you know, And I'm not sure this is just my speculation that maybe some people go through life thinking that they failed and so they just stop altogether and just like, man, I'm done. Like, I'm done with life.
[00:02:50] I'm just gonna do whatever, you know what I mean?
[00:02:55] Could be wrong. I don't know. What do y' all think? Leave some. Leave a comment down below.
[00:02:59] But for me, it's like, I, I have to, I've got, I've got to keep going.
[00:03:05] I've got to keep going. I can't stop.
[00:03:08] Can't stop, won't stop.
[00:03:10] No, like, because I've, I've got responsibilities. And that's the thing about setting goals.
[00:03:17] You miss one, it's fine, you know, pick it up, try the next day. Like, thinking about raising my kids. Sometimes I am harsh with my kids and I have to apologize and realize what I did wrong and strive my hardest to not do it again.
[00:03:40] You know what I mean? It's very easy to take your.
[00:03:44] It's very easy to take your frustrations out on people that are smaller than you, especially if they're your kids.
[00:03:51] So learning not to do that is a discipline. It's a discipline, you know, I mean, it's in, like, why else would it be in the Bible where it says don't be something about, don't be harsh on your kids to where, to where you break their spirit or something like that?
[00:04:11] If you all know that verse, put it down below.
[00:04:15] But basically, why would it be in there if it wasn't a. Some type of discipline or some type of self control, you know? So being harsh with your kids is something that we need to strive to not do because we don't want them to grow up not trying things, not not having goals for themselves, you know what I mean? Teaching them about goals, teaching them about discipline, teaching them about, about if you miss a goal, it's okay, just try again, you know, keep trying, keep going, keep, keep striving, keep moving forward. There's a momentum that we want to keep, to have in our lives.
[00:04:54] Yeah. So my marriage also always having goals.
[00:04:59] My goal, like a personal goal is to like, you know, not be harsh with my wife, to love my wife. I was reading this morning, I think it was in Ephesians.
[00:05:09] Ephesians is that, you know, the husbands love your wives and that it's a mystery that, that, that is, that is like the church or Something like that. I can't remember what it was, but it's a mystery that.
[00:05:23] That is like Christ's relationship with the Church, right?
[00:05:28] Basically. Love your wives like that. You know, it's that type of marriage is that type of mystery.
[00:05:35] It's very interesting to me. Here, let me read it for you. It's Ephesians, chapter 5, verse 22. It says, Wives.
[00:05:42] Let me read the husband aspect.
[00:05:47] Yeah, I guess that was it.
[00:05:49] Walk in love. Hold on a second. Let me find you here. Look carefully at how you walk. Not as unwise, but as wise.
[00:05:56] Making the best use of the time because of the. Because the days are evil. This is Ephesians 5:15, verse 18. It says, and do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit. Addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs. And then a little bit further on, verse 22 of chapter 5 of Ephesians, it says, wives, submit to your husbands. Submit to your own husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church and his body and is himself its Savior.
[00:06:34] A little bit further down. Ephesians, chapter 5, verse 25. It says, Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of the water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy without blemish.
[00:06:57] God. Like, that's. That's like a goal. That is a biblical perspective that I'm striving for, that I need to strive for. If I'm a quote, unquote, Christian right.
[00:07:10] Therefore the man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. Right here. Here it is. Verse 32 of chapter 5. It says, this mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. So, marriage.
[00:07:28] Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ the church. However, let one.
[00:07:39] Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. So there's, There's. There is a guideline to follow here in Scripture.
[00:07:52] How to be a wife. How to be a husband.
[00:07:55] The next chapter, chapter six, at the beginning, it talks to children. Children, how to, you know, Respect, obey your parents and, and things of that nature.
[00:08:08] Yeah. So that my goals and my, the things that I strive for are biblical perspectives.
[00:08:17] And I, I can't. And I go through life having these in my mind how to live my life.
[00:08:28] And I used to be like the, in the preachy way, like, like wanting people, like telling people, like scolding people, like you need to do it, like not scolding, but like having a very strong opinion that people need to do it this way. You know what I mean? I guess you can say a very preachy type of person.
[00:08:49] And then I guess just knowing that is that like that way doesn't work. You know what I mean?
[00:08:56] And for me it was bad because I was like a hypocrite. Right.
[00:09:03] And so the way I do it now is I do it personally, live the way the Bible wants me to live personally.
[00:09:12] And if somebody asks me why or if they're questioning their mind, like why this is why. Because I believe in the Bible. I believe Jesus died for my sins.
[00:09:24] You know, I believe that because I've accepted him. God has given me his Holy Spirit to be able to live with wisdom, to live wisely and not force it onto people, but live so in a manner to where they're like, oh, wow, why is he doing this? Why, why is he like this toward me? How come he doesn't cuss? Or how come his life is like this?
[00:09:53] The Bible.
[00:09:54] This is one of the Bible's on my phone. That's why, you know, so anyway, he just wanted to get this day number two out of the way and have some of my thoughts, put some of my thoughts on the video.
[00:10:07] This is helping me to learn how to formulate my thoughts because I don't really don't talk a lot.
[00:10:12] And yeah, hopefully this helps me and helps you guys. Let me know what you think. Leave a comment down below. Appreciate you guys. Bye.
