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[00:00:00] I can see how it can be easy for a person who is divorced or separated from their husband or wife, how much easier it would be for them to get another partner, whether it's for right away type of relationship, you know what I mean?
[00:00:20] Having intimacy right away.
[00:00:24] I say this because when you're in a marriage, you get to know like for me, I'm a man, I get to know how a woman is, right?
[00:00:35] And if I was to leave my wife or get divorced or separate, it would be easier for me to get into another relationship with a woman by taking advantage of her because I would have had the experience of getting to know how women are in being married or being married.
[00:00:57] Flip side too. Same thing with women. Women get to know how men are and if the woman decides to leave their husband, they can easily get it, get have intimacy with, with a man by using manipulation because they know how, how men are, they've had a chance to live with a man, you know what I mean? So I can see how it could be easy, easy to get with somebody, be with them for a long time, leave them and then easily get with somebody whether to manipulation, say they're not there, they don't want to get into another long term relationship, they can easily get into something short term and then leave that person and another thing shortterm and then leave that person, but another short term leave that person. You get the idea, right?
[00:01:47] The challenge is if you know that there's no reason to leave your, your marriage. You know what I mean? If, if you're, if you're looking for a reason to leave your marriage, you're going to find one, right?
[00:02:02] But the challenge is to stay together, right? Stay with your partner for the long haul, for the long term, work on it. If they want to work on it. If both of y' all want to work on it together, then what's the problem? Work on it together, you know, and up. And of course I always harp on this. I'm not saying be stay with somebody who's abusive, physically abusive, mentally abusive.
[00:02:29] What I'm saying is if we could stay together, if we can stay together till death, basically society would be a lot better. Our kids would be raised a lot better. They don't know how to choose society, choose a partner. You know, I think it's in Proverbs it says that basically the, like the loose woman, it divides society or something like that, right? Think about it. Because if, if the woman is sleeping with multiple different men, you know, and I'm not just saying having it all on women, it's men too.
[00:03:11] In the Bible, loose woman divides society. Bible?
[00:03:20] Yeah. So it's, it's, it's, it's a division. Let me see. Bible verse.
[00:03:25] Man can lose his honor wealthy years. Proverbs describes, leads to death.
[00:03:33] Bible verse.
[00:03:39] Yes, sir.
[00:03:40] Sorry, I have to look down at my phone here.
[00:03:45] I want to explain this because this verse, it, it actually brought it into light for me, which is strange. They fill with their levels, how they're alien.
[00:03:55] All right, Y. I found it here. It's right here. Proverbs 23, 27, 28. It says, For a prostitute is a deep pit.
[00:04:05] An adulteress is a narrow well.
[00:04:07] She lies in weight like a robber and increases the faithless among mankind.
[00:04:15] That's what I was talking about, that the loose woman, or in this case the prostitute or the adulteress, she lies in weight like a robber and increases the faithless among mankind. So this shows the social impact, the immorality increases unfaithfulness among people. It spreads like a sickness through society.
[00:04:42] So my point was it's bad for society.
[00:04:46] Leave your partner, go get another part. You leave your partner, go with another partner.
[00:04:51] It's in like, why else would it be here? I'm, I'm a, I'm a strong believer of biblical perspectives.
[00:04:58] And when I heard and read this, you know, even, even before like getting married, you know, I'm not saying I was a saint, you know what I mean? And I didn't like sleep around and, and I'm, I'm sorry to the women that I've misled in the past, you know, but even, even before that I had known about these verses. Like in Proverbs, it talks about the lips of, of a forbidden woman and her speech is smoother than oil. The, the right here. Proverbs, chapter 5, verse 3 through 5. For the lips of a forbidden woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil. But in the end, she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two edged sword. Her feet go down to death, her steps follow the path of Sheol. But there's plenty of like scriptures that talk about that for men. You know what I mean? And I'm wondering like, why in the Bible does it just address talk about the prostitute, which it doesn't say if she's male or female, you know, so it could, I think, you know, I think it goes both ways. It goes both ways because me, you know, men aren't saints either. Just, I mean, so neither gender is to, I mean both genders are to blame not just one.
[00:06:08] It's bad for society of folks.
[00:06:11] What else was I thinking? I mean it's like what, like 70, 60, I mean, 50 to like 70 of of YouTube watchers are like male.
[00:06:20] And even in my Instagram, like the algorithm puts like on my stories, it'll show three like women at the very top of my stories. I don't look at stories a lot, but when I go to Instagram, it'll show the three top stories are women.
[00:06:38] And of course, you know, women can use their, their body, their looks and stuff like that to get attention. You know, they get attention from men, Men, same side. You know what I mean? Same thing.
[00:06:49] And I'm harping on this because it's, it's been on my mind recently a lot and I feel like I should get it all, get, get some, some words out on a vlog about this stuff that it's bad for society that it's easy for a man to, after they leave their wife or their, or if the wife leaves their husband, it's easy for them to get into another relationship with somebody and, and manipulate somebody because they know how the other gender works. They, they have a little bit more experience of how the other gender works. And I don't advise to do this. Like, don't do this.
[00:07:27] The trouble, the, the challenge is to not, is to, is to have self control, you know, to be inside the word of God, to understand what the Bible says, to communicate with your spouse, to do all the things that you need to do to stay together.
[00:07:43] It, this is like, it's, it's an urgent thing. It's urgent.
[00:07:48] This message is urgent. That's why I'm talking about it.
[00:07:52] And, and I, I, I used to go to this one church and I follow these people from that church, divorce with their husband or their wife.
[00:08:03] There's another divorce, there's another one. And it's just like, man, what is going on with that church? Or what is, I mean, how come the people in the church are getting divorced?
[00:08:14] You know what I mean is the church, is the, the, the church not teaching enough about marriage? You know, what, what's going on? Know, and it's frustrating to me and it's, I get emotional about it because I want for my society to thrive.
[00:08:31] You know, locally I have a local podcast and people that follow me on here, follow me on that podcast. So I think we need to start at the local level, figure out what we're doing.
[00:08:43] Avoid those type of women, avoid those type of men, get away from them, get around people that are genuine. That's why it's hard to. That's why most people have, like, one or two friends, because you don't know who's genuine.
[00:09:02] So, anyways, there's my little soapbox speech there for my blog today. Today's October 29, 2025.
[00:09:11] Happy Halloween, you guys. Next couple days. Pretty sure I'll put a blog out before then, but next light, guys. Bye.
